Sunday, August 20, 2017

Charley and Maddy: Baby Gap Dresses

I couldn't help but snap a few (ok, more than a few!) pictures of the girls wearing these adorable one pieces  I found at Baby Gap Factory a few weeks back! I mean, I'm a sucker for anything pink, but with the ruffle straps and silver shimmer detail, I couldn't pass them up. Plus, the fact that they have a built in onesie that snaps close is a major plus. 


Grammy snuggles are the best snuggles


Charley in the background of this picture kills me! 


The squinty eye + the dimple + the curl = <3 <3 <3


Those teeth, though!


Thanks for stopping by!

Xo, MacKenzie 

Sunday, July 23, 2017

9 Months with Charley & Maddy


When I first started writing this post, it was titled "6 months with Charley & Maddy" ... oops! Seriously, I feel like I say this ALL of the time, but really, where does time go?

I'm not even sure where to begin. My babies don't even seem like babies anymore. I still remember them as my sub-4 lb NICU nuggets! Now they are 15+lbs, tall as weeds, rolling everywhere, pretty much crawling, and constantly babbling and laughing. Their twin language has started and it's pretty much the cutest dang thing I've ever seen. 




Overall, I've gotta say that I am loving this age. They are developing their own personalities and are so interactive (with each other and with Kyle and I). I love getting big smiles, hugs, and endless giggles from my girlies! I also love that they are sitting up on their own. This milestone was definitely a game changer for me. It's also very interesting to see how these two are progressing and developing differently. Typically, Charley is 2-3 weeks behind Maddy in almost everything. I feel like she's letting Maddy do all the hard work and then just decides one day to do it, as well!




Let's just dive right in shall we! Here are some fun facts and updates about our girls...


  • Both girls are eating solids (mostly baby food still, but we've been slowly introducing real foods too). So far, fruits are definitely their favorite, as is ice cream, which their dada secretly fed them without me knowing HA. Those puff snacks have become a recent favorite as have cheerios! They girls are down to about 2-3 9oz bottles a day and we're working on drinking water out of sippy cups (we bought these and love them as starters). Charley has definitely got it down but Maddy is still working on it (loves water, just isn't into the sippy cup -- she actually tries to drink out of real cups haha).  
  • They both are sleeping through the night (hallelujah!) except for when they're feeling under the weather and most recently, when they are teething. We used this book to sleep train and it was easy to follow and worked like a charm! I can't recommend it enough or really just sleep training in general. As a new mama, you quickly learn how you can run on zero sleep, but it's important to remember it doesn't have to be like that forever!
  • Charley loves her pacifier (we're big fans of the Wubanubs) and Maddy doesn't actually use hers, but rather uses it as a teething toy and gnaws on the stuffed animal part. She has gone through at least 6 or 7 since she was born and Charley is only on her second!
  • Speaking of teeth, Maddy has her two bottom teeth, one of her top teeth just came through, and the other top tooth is just breaking through! Charley's first bottom tooth is in and the second is breaking through. I will admit that the teething phase has not been my favorite. Maddy went through it first and I think I blacked out during it, because now Charley is going through it and this mama is hurting. Their schedules are so thrown off, they don't eat well, definitely don't sleep, the drool is OUT OF CONTROL, and they are just in pain and there's not a lot you can do to help (except give them a little Tylenol and basically anything to chew on). 
  • Both girls are learning to clap, love to listen to music, and Charley loves to shake her booty to "Shake it off!" It's pretty much the cutest thing ever.
  • Maddy is sooo close to crawling and literally tries to stand up on her own. She ends up in a downward dog position because she doesn't have the strength or coordination to lift her torso up - it's pretty hysterical haha Charley is just starting to get up on all fours but really just rocks back and forth, as well as pushing herself backwards. She doesn't seem to be in a rush though and is perfectly content watching her sister try to crawl. Charley also loves to balance on her belly, lift all fours in the air, and kick her legs and wave her arms around. She looks like a fish out of water!
  • Maddy just learned how to clap and Charley really just flails her arms around in the air (the coordination isn't there yet but she's close!). Maddy also is in the early stages of pulling up on everything (lord help me); I think it's time to lower those cribs!
  • EVERYTHING goes in their mouths, guys. Like literally everything: car seat straps, toys, clothes, empty bottles, the remote, my phone, blankets, etc. They also think our bodies are meant to be gnawed on.... I repeatedly ask Maddy to stop trying to chew on my knee haha They love to walk around in these walkers and I can't tell you how many times I have found them over by the coffee table, gnawing on the glass top (which reminds me, I really need to get a new coffee table!). On the agenda for next weekend is baby proofing everythinggggg.
  • Both girls love to stand up (with our assistance) and you can tell they just want to get walkin'! Charley has actually taken a few steps while holding onto our hands for support!
  • They laugh with and at each other constantly (I think it's how they communicate)!! As soon as they lock eyes on each other, they both start laughing and squealing (insert heart emojis!). Maddy's laugh is more high-pitched than Charley's, but don't let that fool you. Charley has QUITE the voice and when she is upset, she will tell you LOUD and clear. When she cries/screams, the octave her voice reaches is out of this world and her tongue literally vibrates (like in cartoons!). Girl means business hahah 
  • They are trying to talk but no actual words have been said yet, unless you count "da da da da" which of course Kyle does... I'm constantly trying to get them to say "mama" but I've had no luck haha 


I think my favorite thing as of late is how they LOVE to be with each other. They love to play together and are always laughing and smiling at each other. As soon as we put them down in their own cribs at bed time, they both immediately flip over to find each other on the other side of the changing table, which sits between their cribs. At daycare, they are constantly looking around the room for the other if they are not in each other's direct line of sight. On the flip side of that, there are already girl fights starting haha Maddy takes all of Charley's toys (Charley is starting to take them back) and then Charley cries (she's my sensitive one, for sure!). 




Love my girlies so much and truly cannot imagine life without them. Life with them is the greatest.

Also, their outfits are from Lilly Pulitzer and can be found here.

Xo, MacKenzie 


Friday, February 3, 2017

Our NICU Journey

I've been trying to write this post for the last three months. I wasn't even sure where to begin... that and the fact that my free time is pretty limited now that I have 3 month old twins running my life!

Our girls, Charlotte (Charley) and Madison (Maddy), were born on October 23rd -- you can read all about their birth story here -- which was 6 1/2 weeks early (my due date was December 8th). I knew throughout my pregnancy that there was a high probability they would come early, as most twins do. My goal was to make it to 37 weeks and even had a C-Section scheduled for that day. However, the girls clearly had other plans and arrived at 33.4 weeks gestational.

As soon as my water broke, I knew our girls would not be coming home with us anytime soon. I tried not to think about that part because, you know, I was in labor and my focus was on the contractions that had appeared out of nowhere :) 

Shortly after they were born, the girls were whisked away to the NICU at Brigham and Women's hospital (where I delivered). I'll say upfront that I couldn't be more grateful for the care we received during our stay there. It's not only one of the best hospitals in the country, but also has one of the best NICUs, and for that I will be forever thankful! Being away from my babies was truly one of the hardest things, but knowing they were under the best care helped ease the pain a bit.

From the onset, the girls were born super healthy (so thankful for this!). My water broke simply because the girls had run out of room to grow, rather than due to an infection or something. Charley had no major complications or health issues -- my now chubba wubba just needed to grow!


Charley, only 1 day old, sleeping with her mouth wide open (it kills me)!
Maddy was put on a CPAP machine, as it was taking too much energy for her to fully breath on her own, but she was only on it for 2 days and was never intubated (always breathing room air), which was amazing! From what I understand, the need for a CPAP is very normal for babies born at this gestational age (Charley was just an overachiever and didn't need one ha!). 



Both girls had IVs (the big white cast-looking thing in the above picture), which gave them fluids. They were also fed donor breast milk for the first 5 days or so, until my breastmilk started to come in. This was a great option that our NICU had, as it allowed the girls to receive all the antibodies and nutrients that I couldn't give them yet. 

On Day 5, I was discharged from the hospital and it was by far the most difficult day of my life. I looked forward to going home and sleeping in my own bed (and finally eat some real food), but even the thought of leaving my babies had me in tears. I was discharged in the morning and we spent the whole day with the girls in the NICU (they thankfully had their own private room, so we were able to spend significant amounts of time in there and be comfortable). Leaving to go home that night was the absolute worst. I cried before we left. I cried the whole way home. I cried the whole night without them there. All my husband and I did was look at pictures and videos of them the whole night. I felt helpless and incomplete. It's amazing how quickly your world changes once you have children. Nothing matters but them and leaving their side when they were only 5 days old was just awful. 

The next day, we got up first thing, ate breakfast, grabbed coffee, and made our way back into the hospital to be with our girls. This was pretty much the routine for the next four weeks. 

My husband decided to go back to work the week following my discharge, so that he could spend time at home with the girls once they were released. Since I had had a C Section, I wasn't able to drive for at least 2-3 weeks post-op. I will admit that it was difficult to depend on other people so much. All I wanted was to wake up and go see my girls on my own time, but I couldn't. I would wait for my mom to come pick me up and bring me to the hospital (I always tried to get there before their 11am feeding). Once there, I would stay by their side all day. Days consisted of pumping, helping the nurses take their temperatures and change their diapers (this was done before every feed), and do skin-to-skin whenever I was allowed to. In the beginning, we had to be careful to not overstimulate the girls or jostle them around too much as it would effect their ability to digest feeds. My husband would come in to the hospital after work to see the girls and then take us both home. Most days, we wouldn't get home until 8 or 9 pm. 

The days were so long and yet went by so fast. 


By week one, both girls had their IVs out and were able to spend some time outside of their incubators. Before then, we couldn't have them out for long and always had them bundled up in warm blankets (we still continued to do this, but the girls were also finally just big enough to fit into Preemie-sized clothes). They were just about 3-3 1/2 lbs in this picture (basically just skin and bones haha).

Kangarooing with Maddy -- skin to skin was my favorite <3
After two weeks, the girls were out of their incubators! When I arrived at the hospital that day, I honestly couldn't believe it. Tears of joy spilled from my eyes and I just kept staring at them both with amazement. There were no doors or walls surrounding my babies! I was free to pick them up and hold them whenever I wanted, but more importantly, it meant the girls were able to regulate their body temperature on their own, which was a key component to going home. Hooray! I always looked forward to seeing what the nurses dressed them in that day (I kept them plenty stocked with outfits and swaddle blankets). 


And for those of you wondering, the orange tubes in their noses are their feeding tubes! The girls loved to try and pull them out (and were successful more than a few times).

Once the girls hit 35 gestational weeks, we started to introduce bottle feeding (the last component to going home!). We started slowly; if the girls were really alert and awake at a feeding, we would try to feed them 10mLs (1 oz is approximately 30 mLs) through a bottle and the rest through their feeding tubes. Some days they did great and others, they just had zero interest in trying and would sleep through the entire feed. The main objective was to get them to eat, swallow, and breathe all at the same time (at that age, they are able to do all three separately but not necessarily all together). However, doing all that is extremely tiring for them, so it takes time to build them up to that point. Everyday we would try to bottle feed and depending on how well they did, we would increase in frequency and the amount in the bottle vs. in the feeding tube.


By week 3, the girls were identified as 'Feeder/Growers,' which basically means we were mainly focused on feeding (no other health complications). This stage was very frustrating for me as it was constantly two steps forward and one step back. The girls would take the bottle great and then there would be a day or two where they just wouldn't take it at all. At this point, I was just so anxious to get out of the NICU that I would get frustrated when they wouldn't eat from the bottle well. I know this isn't fair to them because the nurses warned us it was extremely common, but as an adult who can easily eat/drink, you just can't comprehend the difficulty of it for a preemie. 

The last two weeks in the NICU were solely focused on this. The goal was to get them to take all feeds by bottle for at least 24 hours straight. Once they were able to do that, the feeding tubes could come out and then shortly after, it would be time to go home!

On November 16th (middle of week 4), I arrived at the NICU to find both girls WITHOUT feeding tubes! I honestly couldn't even believe it. I literally jumped up  and down with excitement. The NP on duty was near by and started laughing at my reaction -- hey, I was SO happy, what can I say?! Then she gave me the best news, all else being equal, Charley could go home the next day. WHAT! WHAT! Queue the water works people. 

The NP also reminded me that Charley had to pass the car seat test before she could go home -- the test comprises of putting the baby in their car seat, fully strapped in, for 90 minutes (the max time a baby should be in the car seat daily) without any breathing issues. This of course put me in panic mode because I didn't even have the car seat installed or with me (thankfully I was able to go to our local police station the next day to get them both installed).


Thankfully she passed the car seat test and on November 17th, Charley was able to come home. Look at how tiny she was in the car seat!! She hadn't even reached 5 lbs yet (thankfully we bought the Chicco Key Fit 30 car seats, as their minimum weight is 4 lbs!).


Maddy unfortunately had to stay in the NICU a couple more days, as she had a sleep apnea episode one evening and the rule is that after an apnea episode, the baby has to remain in the hospital for 5 days to ensure it doesn't occur again. 

Those couple of days with one baby home and one baby still at the hospital were brutal. Not only because we wanted both of our babies home (and lets be honest, we wanted OUT of the hospital), but also because we weren't allowed to bring Charley with us to the hospital to see Maddy. Since flu season had begun, no child under the age of 12 was allowed in the NICU. Thankfully my parents live close by and were more than willing to watch Charley while we went into the hospital. It was hard for me to not stay all day with Maddy at the hospital, as I had been used to doing, but with Charley being home, I just couldn't.

We visited Maddy every day and she continued to take all her feeds from the bottle and had no other apnea episodes. She passed her car seat test with flying colors and finally we brought our baby girl home on November 20th, exactly 4 weeks after their birth date. I'm pretty sure it was one of the best days ever!

Maddy's first night home! Still can't believe how tiny she was <3

While spending the first 4 weeks of our daughter's lives at the hospital was not ideal and really difficult at times, there were a few pros to the whole experience. One pro is that it gave me time to heal from my C-Section. I was able get a full nights sleep and take it easy around the house, which ultimately left me in a better place physically and mentally when they did come home. The second upside was that four weeks in the NICU was like wearing training wheels. We were able to ease into parenthood and could constantly ask questions and learn all about newborn/preemie behavior. I wasn't anxious when we brought the girls home, but felt more confident than I had imagined I would, as I truly felt ready to handle it all.

I'm so thankful that our babies are healthy and happy. They continue to grow everyday and motherhood, while challenging, is simply the best!

If you made it through this post, you're a rockstar! I know it's lengthy, but hopefully our NICU journey can help other parents out there going through the same thing.

Xo, MacKenzie 










Monday, November 14, 2016

Our Twins Birth Story



Our beautiful daughters, Madison Genevieve (left) and Charlotte Ann (right), were born on October 23rd at 11:36pm and 11:37pm, and weighed in at 3 lb. 6oz and 3 lb. 15 oz.

Their arrival was quite the surprise as I was scheduled for a C Section in the middle of November, at which point I would have been 37 weeks pregnant. The C Section was scheduled as one of the girls was breeched and both were experiencing IUGR (Intrauterine Growth Restriction). Apparently our girls just didn't want to wait any longer!

To start at the beginning, we drove down to New Jersey that weekend for our friend's wedding. The wedding was on Saturday and we had such a blast! Everyone at the wedding was shocked that I had actually made it, given how pregnant I was. I'd said since the beginning that the girls had to stay inside me until after this wedding because there was no way I was missing it! Little did I know they were listening and taking me quite literally... 

On Sunday morning, we got up and started our drive home, making a pitstop in NYC to grab lunch with my sister. We got home around 5:30pm that evening and plopped down on the couch to watch the end of the Patriots game. Kyle fell asleep afterwards, so I decided to take a shower and start unpacking from the weekend.

Shortly after my shower, my water broke (at around 7:30pm). I was second guessing what had happened as I was in complete shock. I screamed for Kyle to get up (from the bathroom, may I add) because I thought my water had just broke. He scurried into the bathroom with a sleepy look on his face that instantly turned to terror!

I put a call into my doctor's office and while I waited for a call back, I googled "How do you know if your water broke?" Yes, I seriously googled it (mostly because I had also called my mom and she was of no help -- apparently, her water never broke naturally!). 

I finally heard back from the OB on call that night and after going through with him what happened, he told me to pack a bag and come into the hospital. Oh boy. Here we go!

Thankfully we hadn't unpacked from our weekend away, so we replaced some clothes with others, kept out toiletries the same, and headed to the hospital. On the way there, I began to have contractions. Damn... those HURT. They were coming every 3 to 4 minutes and all I could think was just please get us to the hospital asap!

After being admitted and hooked up to the monitors, at around 9 pm, the OB confirmed my water had broke and that I was 3 cm dilated. All I kept thinking was, "Oh my god, this is really happening." One of the babies was still breeched so I was going to have to deliver via a C Section. Thankfully I had not eaten anything in quite some time so we didn't have to delay the section all that long. Over the next two hours, while trying to breathe through contractions, I had multiple nurses, anesthesiologists, and a pediatrician come speak with me about what was going to happen during and post C Section. Honestly, during each conversation, I just wanted to say "I trust you to take care of me and my babies, so let's get this show on the road!" The pain was getting worse and my attention span was getting less and less. 

At around 11:15pm, I was wheeled into the OR room where I remember making a joke about how it didn't quite look like the ones on Greys Anatomy. This got quite a chuckle from all the nurses and doctors and seemed to break the ice quite nicely. First thing on the to do list was to get the spinal tap, which seriously, thank goodness for that spinal tap. Once it was administered, I immediately felt tingling in my legs and the pain from my contractions started to subside (PRAISE GOD). I did get the the serious shakes (not sure if this is from the anesthesia or just a common side effect of labor, but I do know it is common!) and was given three warm blankets, which were laid amongst my arms and chest. This definitely helped the shakes a bit.

Once I was all numb and fully prepped, they brought Kyle into the OR. I didn't even know when it all started, which I was happy about, as I had the nurses continuously talk to Kyle and I to keep us distracted from what was happening on the other side of the curtain. 

At 11:36pm, Maddy entered the world and one short minute later, Charley was born. Hearing their cries for the first time was the greatest thing in the world. I have never been so happy and so full of raw emotion in my entire life. Both Kyle and I couldn't stop crying! 


Given that the girls were born quite early (33.3 weeks), there were two teams (one for each baby) of pediatricians/nurses in the OR with us who were ready to take care of them. Kyle left my side to go see them and came back to report they were both doing great. Shortly after, the nurses brought the babies over to me so I could see them for the first time. I was just in complete shock and awe that we had created these two little girlies!


We love our little girls so much and are so thankful that they arrived safe and sound.

Given that they were born quite premature, they have been in the NICU for the last three weeks. I'm working on a post discussing our time in the NICU, so stay tuned! In the meantime, make sure to follow along with their progress over on Instagram

Xo, MacKenzie